Dear Betty:

My wife and I have been involved in the swingers’ lifestyle for about a year. I have a performance problem that is killing me. I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection when I am with my wife. But when I get with another woman, I can’t keep an erection at all when it comes time for penetration. While I receive oral sex from other women, I’m as hard as usual. When it comes time to put on a condom, my erection withers away. If I try to have intercourse without a condom, the best I can do is semi erect. It’s enough to get the deed done, barely. My wife keeps telling me it’s in my head and I need to just relax, but it’s very frustrating and a major ego crusher for me. Are there some relaxation techniques you could recommend or something else possibly to look into?

Thanks,
Frustrated in the Mountains

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Dear Frustrated:

You’re another man living out the fantasies of other men. That’s great that you and your wife have decided to be swingers and take your relationship to a whole new level. It takes a very solid relationship to be able to carry that off. Kudos to you.

As for your performance issues, I think there are a few ways we can tackle this. First off, I would say pick one other woman and have her join you and/or your wife more than a few times. It’s hard to have chemistry with someone you hardly know and different people all the time. Really get to know the other person&talk, have drinks or whatever you feel comfortable doing. I would try that first and see what happens.

If that doesn’t work, I would really sit down and think about what could be the real issue here? Ask yourself if you’re really comfortable having sex with other women. Maybe, you’d get more turned on just watching your wife with other men and/or being part of that action. Of course, it could all be mental. You might want to imagine the other woman is your wife. Men daydream all the time about having sex with porn stars, while fucking their wives or girlfriends.

One last suggestion. You might want to loosen up the mood with a little porn. It always gets me in the mood. Evil Angel’s Euro Angels Hardball #1 has sex scenes with erotic stories in them. Maybe, you want to watch what you’ll be doing. Get an amateur movie that has scenes with 2 or 3 people having sex. Combat Zone’s The Girl Next Door would be a good one.

I hope this helps you get over whatever is literally keeping you down. Just relax, take a deep breath, have fun, and your whole experience will change. Fingers crossed.

This is awesome.  Barbie now comes out with a version that you can apply a tattoo sticker to Barbie anywhere on her body, and a temporary tattoo for young ladies in waiting.. It’s called the “Totally Stylin’ Tattoos Barbie“.

Hawt.  Some parents are up in arms about this.  What’s the big deal, like her porportions are right in the first place.  It’s not like it says “Welcome to Heaven” like my stripper friend has.  They could have called it Porno Barbie, or Easy Barbie, although I think Jenna Jameson’s porportions are pretty close.

If you’re into tattoos, check out these titles.

xoxo

Jen

Dear Betty,

Do you know if there any DVD’s that focus mainly on the fetish of huge cumshots all over big tits?

Thanks,
CB Fan

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Dear CB:
Big boobs and cumshots. Nice combo. 3rd Degree’s Breast Seller #2 features big boobs and pop shots on them, along with a few facials. This compilation has some of the hottest chicks in porn, including Gina Lynn and Tory Lane.

Although he’s usually all about the ass, Jules Jordan’s Breast Worship has 7 sets of giant melons (and lots of jokes about them) and loads of cum. His Boobaholics Anonymous #2 is a big boob and cum extravaganza, as well.

Red Light District’s 110% Natural #10 has Sophie Dee and Brandy Talore taking some nice loads on their voluptuous tits. If you like it, check out the whole series.

And lastly, I would recommend, Diabolic’s Rack It Up with Carmella Bing, Nikki Benz and Brooke Haven bouncing their tits for your pleasure.

Try and contain yourself with this much entertainment&I know it will be hard.

Happy viewing,
Betty

For those that aren’t from the greater Los Angeles area, or California, or the west coast really, Orange County is known for a few things:

1. Hot Young Chicks
2. Hot Young MILFS
3. Suburban Reality Shows

This is all thanks to that magical thing called Plastic Surgery from a magical place called Orange County, the capital of cosmetic operations.  This place pumps out porn stars, strippers, and women that WANT to look like porn stars and strippers by the SUV load.  It’s in their culture according to this NY Times article…but the market has apparently dropped by almost 40% since last year.

Hopefully this won’t stem the flow of new girls into porn/stripping.

xoxo

-Jen

This is a great story.  A wife uses her tax return to buy a macbook, to create a website, to post her husband’s information and resume up, to find him a job.

www.myhusbandneedsajob.com is born.

LOL!

What a great testament to human enginuity.  In this market and economy, you’ve got to be creative.

In honor of this idea, WantedList has registered 2 domains for your amusement, in true porno fashion:

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Enjoy!

xoxox

-Jen

There’s no greater way to end a Friday in this economy of ours than this news.  The Dow climbed to close at 7223.98 today.  I’ve been a bit bearish the last few weeks, but we’re about back to November of 2008 numbers here.  Maybe we’ve hit bottom and can come back up again.

Actually there is.  Spend some money.  C’mon get that credit card out and spend some money on Porn!  Economic Viagra!

If you stimulate our economy, we promise to stimulate you back.  If you’re feeling extra generous, buy your lady something…or maybe something you both can enjoy.  Hell it’ll be cheaper than dinner and a movie.

xoxo

-Jen

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