You’ve touched on a subject near and dear to Betty’s heart. Just like you, I was once as apprehensive (yet curious) as a kitten about threesome sex. It wasn’t until I explored all the options and possibilities and felt certain there would be no jealousy that I became fully committed to itand then fully addicted to it! Now, your bride is going to need a lot of convincing from the sound of it. That doesn’t mean you should force her to do anything she truly doesn’t want to. But a little suggestion, a gentle nudge, a lot of reassurance (ass-kissing compliments help) and a few dirty movies just might do the trick.

My first suggestion is to erase the “weird” association your girl has about threesomes. And, the way to do that is by desensitizing her to it. If you two are regular porno watchers-great! You’re ahead of the game. If not, just watch Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes: Two Guys & a Girl or Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes: Two Girls & a Guy (Adam & Eve/Ultimate) depending on which angle you’re going for. Because they’re educational, the idea may come off as less harsh and more “normal” for your wife-to-be. If not, you’ll have to work a little harder. Suggest the idea of a threesome to her and if she resists, ask her if she’d at least be open to learning more about it before saying no. Pop in Nina Hartley and class will be in session.

If after she watches she likes what she sees, you can graduate to less dogmatic porn and show her something like Three Somes (3rd Degree Films), which includes some raunchy pussy and ass-fucking scenes. Remind her that it would feel amazing for her to have four hands touching her instead of two. Or that she would look unbelievably sexy kissing another girl. If she’s receptive, especially to the thought of doing it with another girl, move on to something like Big Tit Threesomes (Big Top). I guarantee that what she once thought of as bizarre will suddenly pique her interest. That’s how I got into anal sex, but that’s another Q&A. In the meantime, when you talk about actually doing it, reassure her that it’s her you love, but that maybe you both should have this experience just once before you get married. Of course, if you both like it, you can continue after you say your vows. But for now, pitch it as a one-time thing.

So assuming it’s a go and your dream does come true, it’s important to establish boundaries, such as what the third party will and won’t be allowed to do. Decide long before the actual night if you’re going to allow penetration of any kind, oral sex, kissing on the lips, etc. and then stick to it. In my experience, things can go too far in the heat of passion and boundaries get crossed&that’s when those feelings of animosity you spoke about come into play. Assure her that she’s not the only one who might experience feelings of jealousy and ask her what she’d be willing to put up with. And after your night of bliss (be it with another man or woman) is through, be sure to talk it over with your fiancé. Ask her how she felt, how she feels now that it’s done and what she liked and didn’t like. And if all that goes well, ask when you can do it again!

Hope this helps! Betty

I am no doctor. Additionally, my boss says I need to write that this by no way is qualified medical advice and the best advice will come only from a qualified medical professional. That being said…my answer is that unfortunately impotence and incontinence are two major side effects that accompany a radical prostatectomy. This is due to the nerves on both sides of your prostate that control erections may have been damaged or removed during surgery. Often these side effects are temporary, but I’m not certain when you had your surgery. Doctors now use a new “nerve-skparing” technique in which the nerve and blood supplies to the erectile tissues of the penis are meticulously preserved during surgery. As a result, the chance of impotence has been substantially reduced. Consult your physician to see if this is possibly a temporary side effect. Most men under age 50 who have nerve-sparing surgery are able to achieve normal erections afterward. And, some men in their 70s are able to maintain normal sexual functioning. Men who had trouble achieving and/or maintaining an erection before surgery have a higher risk of being impotent after the surgery.

In the meantime, may I suggest a few “choice” videos to help you get it up?
If tits are your pleasure, try Boob Stravaganza!(Digital Sin). Buxom beauties Alexis Silver, Gianna, Brandy Talore, Pandora Dreams and Carmen Hayes show off their mouthwatering melons just in time for summer.

What’s that? You say lower meat units do the trick for you instead? Then check out Ultimate Asses (Platinum X) or Weapons of Ass Destruction #4 by ass master Jules Jordan. If watching these anal sluts doesn’t raise your pecker, my friend, I’m not sure anything will.

Hope this helps! Betty

In 2006, we’ve got men becoming women and dating women, women becoming men and dating women, gays and lesbians getting married and having children, and people getting tortured on racks for pleasure. My point? There’s no such thing as normal anymore. If it feels right to you and it’s not hurting anyone, go ahead and do it. And if that includes pissing in each other’s mouths, then let it rip!

As far as movies go, we’ve got some that depict peeing&just not on or in anyone’s mouth. Why? Because, it’s illegal to sell those type of flicks in the good ole US of A. Now, there are many, many, many foreign companies that show the most extreme pissing antics in the world (GGG comes to mind), but you can’t buy them through our site. We do carry GGG pornos but they cover the girls in cum&not piss. So if you’re interested in seeing girls just pee into the wind or their panties, take a look at Big, Busty Pissing Perverts (Big Top), Tinkling Tinkerbabes & Dirty Little Pissers (Bacchus TTV) or Golden #2 (Dreamland). These will get you and your wife started down the golden path of glory.

Hope this helps! Betty

If there’s one thing you can be sure about when it comes to porn…every market has been tapped. And that includes Asian women/white men. In fact, it’s HUGE right now. You can see it in Japanese Hunter (Adult Source Media) where American cocks are trolling the streets of Tokyo looking for yellow tail, Me So Asian and I Love ‘Em Asian (Acid Rain), PervAsian (Pulse) and so many more like 18 & Asian (AMA) and Tight & Asian #5 (Devil’s Film). The list goes on and on. And, with performers like Luci Thai on the loose look out! These flicks are bound to get even more popular.

As for you getting into the movies, as long as you have the dick and the endurance my friend, I’m sure any studio would be willing to give you a shot, so to speak. There’s a reason you see the same guys popping up in adult films again and again. There’s a shortage of hard, young men. My advice is to head for Southern California, my friend, gun blazing.

Hope this helps! Betty

Let’s start with the easiest&threesome. If you think real hard I’m pretty sure you can figure this one out. But, maybe I assume too much. Ok, a threesome is when three people have sex all at the same time with each other as opposed to the “traditional” two at once. It can be a combination of one man and two women, one woman and two men or three men or three women. And, everyone should be consenting.

An orgy is group sex with a bunch of people all having sex with each other. Ever hear of a Roman Orgy? Ever see Caligula? Picture a room filled with naked bodies all rolling around on the floor fucking, sucking, touching, caressing and kissing. That’s an orgy and it’s fantastic. For demonstrations, start with Serenity’s Roman Orgy (Wicked), and then move onto Orgy World (Jake Steed Productions), Seymore Butts’ A Christmas Orgy (Seymore Butts), Phat Ass Brazilian Orgy (Black Ice) or Baby Doll Lesbian Orgy (Baby Doll Pictures). The orgy porns are endless!

A gang bang is three or more people of the same sex having sex with only one other person, usually of the opposite sex. For example, a woman gets fucked by 5 guys taking turns on her or fucking her ass, pussy and mouth all at the same time, essentially “ganging up” on her. See The Gangbang Girl #3 & 4 or #5&6 (Anabolic), Pay Back: Gang Bang (Evolution Erotica), Dirty Girl Gangbang (NJ Films) or Gangland: Super Gang Bang #2 (Devil’s Film). For themes, see Ballerina Bang and Bride Bang (Vertigo). Lately, though, there’s been a trend in adult films that shows “reverse gangbangs,” where many women have sex with one man. Check out Rocco’s Reverse Gang Bang #1-3 or Euro Angel’s Hardball #19: Reverse Gang Bang Edition (Evil Angel), and Reverse Gang Bang #1 & #2 (Sineplex) to see what I’m talking about. Of course, you get two for the price of one if you watch My First Porn Scene in Las Vegas #3: Gang Bangs and Orgies (Juicy Entertainment) or Gangbang Sluts and Orgy Lovers (Smash Pictures).

And finally, a train is closely related to gang bang, (it’s something that’s done by gangbangers) but it has more of a negative connotation. There are, however, some films out in which say 25 guys fuck a girl’s mouth one after another. Tonsil Train #1 & #2 (Evolution Erotica) are good examples of this.

Hope this helps! Betty

1. Rocco: Animal Trainer (Evil Angel)
2. Jules Jordan’s Flesh Hunter #5 (Jules Jordan Video)
3. Belladonna: Evil Pink (Evil Angel)
4. Seymore and Shane Mount Tiffany (Seymore Butts)
5. Jenna Loves Pain (Club Jenna)
6. Camp Cuddly Pines (Wicked)
7. Neu Wave Hookers (VCA)
8. Beverly Hill’s Cox (Caballero)
9. The End Game (Vivid)
10. Jesse Jane: All American Girl (Digital Playground)

Hope this helps! Betty

The category you want to order from is “All-Girl” rather than lesbian. Check out Vulvapalooza (Vertigo), Strap It On #4 (Platinum X), Strapon Toyz (Assassin Pictures), Sophia’s All Girl Violation (Hustler), Dirty Dykes (Defiance), Cunt Gushers #2 (Red Light District), Teen Gushers (Acid Rain), Gush #3 (Knob Ryder) and Flirtin’ n’ Squirtin’ (Baby Doll Pictures).

Hope this helps! Betty