Porn is a great way to spice up in the bedroom. Softcore and movies with plots are an excellent starting point.

Playboy is notorious for their softcore titles. Check out Playboy Gen-X Girls or The Ultimate Pamela Anderson. Or maybe a girl-on-girl movie like Swank Digital’s Adorable Girls #6 might put your wife in the mood. And before Jenna Jameson was hardcore, she made several sensual flicks under the Peach DVD label including, Interviewing Jenna, Jenna from All Angles and Jenna Jameson: Emotions.

Vivid has an amazing array of flicks that are not only tame, but have intricate plots. You may even forget you’re watching porn. Director Paul Thomas is known for his big budget feature extravaganzas. Check out a few of his titles including To Die For, Desperate and After Midnight.

Try some of these more sensual flicks and you might just get your wife so into porn that she’ll be begging for the hardcore movies.

Love, Betty

Squirting, also known as female ejaculation, is definitely an art that can be mastered. Basically, the squirting is aided or caused by stimulating the G-Spot or urethra. The fluid that is spewed out is urine, cum or a combination of both. The amount of fluid expelled when you squirt varies from woman to woman and the intensity of your orgasm. Don’t expect to squirt every time, because you won’t. And if you get too fixated on it, you won’t be able to enjoy the task at hand.

Check out Nina Hartley’s Guide to Female Ejaculation for some educational tips. And if you’re interested in watching your favorite porn stars squirt, check out Flower Tucci and Squirt Queen, Cytherea in The Greatest Squirters Ever! or Combat Zone’s Squirters with Taylor Nix and Chloe Morgan. Some of these experts can squirt on command by touching or spanking their clits&it’s absolutely amazing!

Good luck on your squirting adventure.

Love, Betty

If you’ve ever checked out WantedList’s Pornstar WetBar section, you’ll notice we quiz the porn stars about best and worst pick up lines. Most of these beauties tell us they don’t like cheesy pick-up lines and that the direct, honest approach is best.

But before you head out to find an unsuspecting girl to join you in some debauchery, you might want to get some sex tips from those in the know. Women like seduction and seducing a woman is a lot of what will get her in your bed. Nina Hartley is the Queen of how-to/sex education DVDs. Check out Nina Hartley’s Guide to Seduction and learn how to do it right. Next, I would suggest that you check out Nina Hartley’s Making Love to Women. Make sure you take notes and get the techniques down. You may want to view the DVD several times.

And last but not least, women love confidence. Go out there and be confident, not cocky, and you’ll definitely find a hottie to go home with you. Good luck!

Love, Betty

I have to agree with you that when a girl finishes a man off, it’s far more titillating. I would check out these flicks featuring stellar performances of women completing the deed:

There’s a very hot scene in Vivid’s The Masseuse - yes, Jenna Jameson gives Justin Sterling a lot more than a massage.

Adam & Eve have a compilation called She Sucks. You can catch scenes with Carmen Luvana and Jewel DeNyle jerking their male counterparts off. All I can say is hot!

And in Red Light’s She Bangs, Sunny Lane gives her on-screen fiancé one of the best handjobs ever seen on film, while her character still feigns that she’s a virgin. In another scene she finishes off Tommy Gunn with her mouth.

And lastly for movies purely about blowjobs, check out Ninn Works‘ Pop #4: The Beauty of the Blowjob or Red Light’s Throat Gaggers #10. Both titles live up to their advertising.

Love, Betty

Sorry to hear your sex life is on the decline. I’m happy to help, but I do want to let you know that I’m not a physician. So, you might want to consult your doctor and do what he or she recommends.

Personally, I believe your husband’s not wanting to have sex is a phobia. His breathing problems started when you two were having sex. He probably feels his breathing problems will return once you two start being amorous again.

Try this - start out slow. Just some kissing. Then, graduate up to giving him a mind-blowing blowjob. Work your way up to having full-on sex. This will allow him to get over his fears, let go and enjoy himself.

Better than a cocktail, porn might be the prescription he needs to get him craving sex again. Try a porn with a plot. He’ll get into the movie and turned on at the same time. Here are a few choice selections:

Digital Playground’s Pirates is a porn swashbuckler&it’s got great locales, an amazing plot and some of the hottest porn starlettes around including Carmen Luvana, Devon and Teagan Presley.

Private’s Sex Angels 2 is a combination of porn and hot, crime fighting babes. A lot like Charlie’s Angels, only hotter.

Take a trip to the Orient and watch VCA’s Memoirs of a Modern Day Geisha. This flick is not only beautifully shot, but highly arousing.

Hope this helps! Betty

It’s great that you’re into watching porn. I can tell you’re an adventurous, sassy girl!

I, too, watch a lot of porn. While 90% of women in porn are attractive, the men leave something to be desired. But I am here to help and I want to let you know there are hot men in porn. I’m not sure of your “type” but here are a few suggestions:

First, I would suggest Erik Everhard. He has dubbed himself “the greatest porn superstar in the world” and I might have to agree with him on that one. You can catch him and his amazing Canadian hard body in such flicks as Digital Playground’s Hard Candy 2, Evil Angel’s Canadian Beaver, Digital Playground’s Sexual Freak, and Voyeur Media’s Teens in Tight Jeans.

Next, you should check out Evan Stone. He’s the Fabio of the porn world with his long hair and chiseled features. Like Everhard, Evan is a porn veteran. A few of his titles include Hustler’s Barely Legal #60 and The Da Vinci Load along with Club Jenna’s Krystal Therapy and Adam & Eve’s Head Master #2.

And lastly for your viewing pleasure, check out the actor/director Tommy Gunn. His rugged Italian good looks and East Coast accent make many porn starlettes weak in the knees (literally). A few of his titles include Assassin Pictures Gunned Down, Wicked Pictures Between the Sheets, and VCA’s Britney Rears: Wild Back Stage Sex Party.

Love, Betty

First off, I’d like to let you know that just because a guy wants a little anal stimulation doesn’t make him gay. I once dated an arms dealer who wanted me to put on a strap-on dildo, chase him around the house, and catch him to have my way with him. He was a manly guy, but I too questioned his sexuality. Then, I read an article in a men’s magazine how more and more men are into anal stimulation. After that, I questioned no more, did what made him happy, and it improved our sex life tremendously.

I’m sure you’re curious as to why men love anal action. You know how women have the G-Spot? Well, the male G-Spot is the prostate which accessible through his anus. As I’m sure you’ve discovered, the erotic possibilities and huge orgasms your man can experience by inserting your finger, dildo, or other sex toy in your man’s anus. If not, definitely keep experimenting and don’t forget the lube.

As for the bi DVDs, I like watching them, too. Girl-on-girl scenes are just hot. Am I a bi-sexual? No, I just get turned on by watching it. Just because you are turned on by the female form doesn’t make you bi. The whole idea of fantasy comes into play here. So, when your guy watches 2 guys together, he probably is just excited about the fantasy element. More than likely, he doesn’t want to sleep with men. And you probably feel the same way when watching 2 girls get busy.

And lastly, here are a few flicks that I recommend. For some girl-on-girl, guy-on-guy and girl-on-guy bi action, check out Robert Hill’s Bi Sex Swingers series and Adam & Eve’s Fine Bi Me.

Hope this helps!Love, Betty