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| Dear Betty,
I was wondering… Is it common that my girlfriend wasn’t always able to make me cum? This really used to piss her off. Unless I try to cum, I can easily fuck for a couple of hours. I think that part of it is really enjoying sex so I am in no hurry to finish. Now this makes for a difficult one night stand, because the women want to come back. Which wouldn’t be a bad thing, but a lot of the women I work around would like to fuck me. And, I certainly don’t wish to carry on any relationship with anyone from work. Also it can create a problem with women a get involved with not really wanting to fuck for hours at a time. I just don’t do quickies. This brings me to my next question. Should I just enjoy the fact I can fuck for extended periods of time and stop complaining? Or, should I just try for two chicks at once? That way when one gets tired, I can simply switch. - Thanks, Todd |
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| Wow, Todd, you have a lot of questions there. But your resident sexologist, Betty, is here to help.
Sometimes you will have sex with girls who can’t make you cum. It could be you’re just not turned on by your girlfriend. But ask yourself these questions. Can your girlfriend fuck for long periods of time? Or does she go for a short period of time and you’re just not able to climax because you’re not there? If you don’t (or can’t force yourself) cum, that could be the answer. I do have to say that it’s an impressive skill that you can just go and go like the Energizer Bunny. Many men can’t accomplish that feat. Since you’re not a fan of the quickie, you need to find a woman with the same sexual level that you have. Look for a girl who likes to go all night and/or have multiple rounds of sex (with breaks in between, of course). If you’re going to have one-night stands you need to tell women that’s all there is&unless you’re looking for a fuck buddy/friend with benefits. If they keep coming back for more it might be your prowess or the fact that you’re concerned with them getting off too (which is a good thing). Also, I have to agree with you that sleeping with co-workers is never a good idea&there’s always the gossip and awkwardness, if things go badly.
To understand threesome etiquette, I would suggest you check out Adam & Eve’s Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes; Two Girls & a Guy. This flick has professional porn stars Good luck! Love, Betty |
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| Dear Betty,
I enjoy young big beautiful women around 18-20. Can you recommend any? - Dan |
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| Dear Dan:
I don’t run a dating service. But, I would suggest you try bars around colleges. If you’d like some tips on porn with smoking hot BBWs 18 to 20, I can help you with that. Too many BBW movies feature women who aren’t the 2 nd ‘B’, but I can suggest a handful And if you’d like to see more titles that may titillate you, browse under the BBW genre. Happy viewing! Love, Betty |
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| Dear Betty,
I get the impression that HPV is pretty wide-spread among sexually active people these days, and herpes isn’t far behind; I imagine the same is true in the porn industry. I’m curious: how is this dealt with in the industry? Does it effectively end a porn star’s career, is protection used all the time with a person who has it, or is t ‘business as usual’ as long as there is no current out break? Thanks! - Z |
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| Dear Z,
I’m not entirely sure why you are asking this question. Are you planning a career in porn? According to Dear Betty’s doctor, 80 percent of the sexually active female population in their 20s and 30s has HPV (Human Pap Loma Virus). So, the same is probably true with porn stars. It usually clears after awhile and rarely becomes full-blown cervical cancer. Many porn stars get tested for STDs at AIM Healthcare Foundation, which was started by former porn star Sharon Mitchell (who has admitted to having Herpes herself). According to Ms. Mitchell, about 66 percent of porn stars have Herpes. It is a requirement that porn stars provide proof that they have been tested for HIV and other diseases (and they are clean) on the set before they even begin filming. This has become more and more important since condoms are rarely used in movies (although you do see one every now and again). Being a porn star is like being a fireman&there are risks and you have to decide if it’s worth it. Chlamydia and gonorrhea are common and they are easily treated so porn stars can return to the set within a few weeks, usually. If you’re not living the life of a porn star, be sure to have safe sex unless you and your partner have been tested for STDs. Our site has lots of condoms and lube to help you with that Hope this answers your question! Love, Betty |
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| Dear Betty,
I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and then a hand job, but he didn’t cum. Should I be worried something’s wrong? I mean it’s just weird because most guys cum when you’re doing that. Right? Please let me know. - Thanks, |
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| Dear Perplexed,
Sometimes no matter the skill level, you can’t make a man cum. He could be worried about his job or have his mind on something that delays his gratification. It happens to the best of us (not Dear Betty, of course). But if this type of situation happens to you frequently, you may need to go to BJ School to rethink your technique. I would suggest putting 2 movies in your queue&Instructional Media’s The Fine Art of Fellatio and How to Give a World Class Blowjob. The women in these movies are experts (and porn And the last bit of homework I will give you is to practice, practice, practice. Buy a glass dildo or a realistic rubber one and bone up on your skills. Before you go for the real thing, practice on a inch ultra skin cock&it’s ultra realistic and you might forget it’s just a dildo. Glass dildos are also good&try the Glass Erotic Torpedo Glass Dildo&it’s multi-colored and you can use it for your own amusement later. I hope this helps. Good luck! Love, Betty |
