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Advisor June 15th 2009

Posted on Jun 15

Dear Betty:

My wife and I have been involved in the swingers’ lifestyle for about a year. I have a performance problem that is killing me. I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection when I am with my wife. But when I get with another woman, I can’t keep an erection at all when it comes time for penetration. While I receive oral sex from other women, I’m as hard as usual. When it comes time to put on a condom, my erection withers away. If I try to have intercourse without a condom, the best I can do is semi erect. It’s enough to get the deed done, barely. My wife keeps telling me it’s in my head and I need to just relax, but it’s very frustrating and a major ego crusher for me. Are there some relaxation techniques you could recommend or something else possibly to look into?

Thanks,
Frustrated in the Mountains

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Dear Frustrated:

You’re another man living out the fantasies of other men. That’s great that you and your wife have decided to be swingers and take your relationship to a whole new level. It takes a very solid relationship to be able to carry that off. Kudos to you.

As for your performance issues, I think there are a few ways we can tackle this. First off, I would say pick one other woman and have her join you and/or your wife more than a few times. It’s hard to have chemistry with someone you hardly know and different people all the time. Really get to know the other person&talk, have drinks or whatever you feel comfortable doing. I would try that first and see what happens.

If that doesn’t work, I would really sit down and think about what could be the real issue here? Ask yourself if you’re really comfortable having sex with other women. Maybe, you’d get more turned on just watching your wife with other men and/or being part of that action. Of course, it could all be mental. You might want to imagine the other woman is your wife. Men daydream all the time about having sex with porn stars, while fucking their wives or girlfriends.

Advisor June 15th 2009 One last suggestion. You might want to loosen up the mood with a little porn. It always gets me in Advisor June 15th 2009 the mood. Evil Angel’s Euro Angels Hardball #1 has sex scenes with erotic stories in them. Maybe, you want to watch what you’ll be doing. Get an amateur movie that has scenes with 2 or 3 people having sex. Combat Zone’s The Girl Next Door would be a good one.

I hope this helps you get over whatever is literally keeping you down. Just relax, take a deep breath, have fun, and your whole experience will change. Fingers crossed.

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Advisor April 30th 2009

Posted on Apr 30

Dear Betty,

My wife can play with my dick for a long time, including handjobs and oral. But the minute I penetrate her, I cum, literally, in 2 minutes. I don’t understand. My dick can be stimulated for an hour, but once it’s inside the love canal it unleashes the goods. The party’s over. What’s the deal? Is there anything I can do to prevent this and make it last longer while being inside her? Please help!!!

Much thanks,
Disappointed

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Dear Disappointed:

I had to laugh when I read your letter. Betty once had a boyfriend who was a two-minute man. He had a lot of excuses, like it’s because I love you and/or it’s because we don’t use condoms. We used condoms and it didn’t change anything. Finally, after 6 months, I couldn’t take it anymore. He still wants to get together and have sex. But, I won’t play that game anymore.

You seem really diligent and want to solve this problem. It’s important you can go longer, so your woman can orgasm and enjoy you inside her. I would try these things:

· Try condoms&condoms take away sensitivity, which could be causing your premature ejaculations. We have a huge variety in our toy section. You might want to try the Lifestyles Non-Lubricated ones. The less lubrication, the more of a chance you’ll go longer.Advisor April 30th 2009
· Get a cock ring. A cock ring can go around your dick or your dick and balls. I would try just the dick first. This has helped many men rock the boat all night long. Literally. There are metal and adjustable ones. I would start with the rubber, adjustable ones &they’re more comfortable. This set comes with 3. Go with the ones that’s the tightest you can stand&it will hopefully do the trick.
· Another trick would be to keep pulling out before you cum. This could help, but if you do pull in and out repeatedly too often, it might piss your wife off. It sucks when you’re almost orgasming and you lose it all the sudden&that’s how she might feel if you try this technique.
· You could use a trick male porn stars use. They let there minds go somewhere else, not thinking about the task at hand. That’s how they can be marathon men, when it comes to the money shot.
· Lastly, you might want to see your doctor. He could prescribe something and/or see if the problem is physical.

I hope this helps and you become the stallion in bed you want to be.

Cheers,
Betty

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Advisor April 15th 2009

Posted on Apr 15

Dear Betty,

My wife loves watching porn with me. Her favorites involve anything where the girl has to be talked into doing anything (especially straight sex and facials). Are there any movies out there that focus on this theme? We tried the whole Bang Bus thing, but it is just too childish for us. The dialogue was ridiculous. Please help us out.

Thanks,
BH

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Dear BH:

Amateur and reality porn are quite a turn on. You get to see fresh new faces and the whole talking a chick into sex is good entertainment.

Advisor April 15th 2009 If you’re not a fan of Bang Bus, you might like Pink Visual’s Backseat Bangers and the Bang Boat series. We have quite a few of them and they’re pretty hot. If you like MILFs, they also have a series called Housewife Bangers. The tables are turned&the chicks are getting their husbands to agree to them having sex with other men, even if that means them watching. I also like the Her First Anal Sex series&nothing is harder than getting a chick to do that. The good thing about Pink Visual movies is their girls don’t look tore up from the floor up&you’ll actually see some cute girls who you really will believe are having sex on camera for the first time and/or being coerced into doing it.Advisor April 15th 2009

You might want to check out Amateur District’s titles, like Amateur P.O.V.. You’ll see a lot of porn stars before they made they big time, as fresh-faced young girls. If you’d like to see more amateur titles, click on the Amateur genre tab.

Hope this helps!

Love,
Betty

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Advisor Mar 24 2009

Posted on Mar 24

Dear Betty,

I saw a mainstream movie once that hinted at two women sharing a double-ended dong, “ass to ass” as they said in the movie. Is there a common name for this technique, and what are some good movies that show it?

Thanks,
DD

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Dear DD:

Very original question there. I did a little research and there’s no name for that specific act. It can be considered a fetish, either an anal or toy fetish. Personally, I’ve only seen girls using double dongs in their snatches or mouths. But, there are movies that feature girls using double dongs anally. It is quite a rare phenomenon, though.

Advisor Mar 24 2009 In NJ Films’ Interacial Anal Teens ‘N Toys there is a scene with Mia Beck and Mika Tan were they go to town with a double dong. It goes into both their snatches and does make it’s way into Mika’s ass, while in Mia’s snatch. This movie has girls with a lot of toys and you’ll want to see the other scenes. And if you like this flick, there’s a number 2 in the installment, as well.

In NuTechs’ Double Dildo Dykes , these girls get busy anally and every which way with double dongs.

These two movies were all I could find. Now, you could also get creative and buy a double ended dong, like the Majestic CyberSkin Double Cock, and have 2 girls go at it for some live action. You could even make your own movies, just the way you like them.

Enjoy,
Betty

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Advisor Mar 17 2009

Posted on Mar 18

Dear Betty,

Do you know if there any DVD’s that focus mainly on the fetish of huge cumshots all over big tits?

Thanks,
CB Fan

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Dear CB:Advisor Mar 17 2009
Big boobs and cumshots. Nice combo. 3rd Degree’s Breast Seller #2 features big boobs and pop shots on them, along with a few facials. This compilation has some of the hottest chicks in porn, including Gina Lynn and Tory Lane.

Although he’s usually all about the ass, Jules Jordan’s Breast Worship has 7 sets of giant melons (and lots of jokes about them) and loads of cum. His Boobaholics Anonymous #2 is a big boob and cum extravaganza, as well.

Red Light District’s 110% Natural #10 has Sophie Dee and Brandy Talore taking some nice loads on their voluptuous tits. If you like it, check out the whole series.

And lastly, I would recommend, Diabolic’s Rack It Up with Carmella Bing, Nikki Benz and Brooke Haven bouncing their tits for your pleasure.

Try and contain yourself with this much entertainment&I know it will be hard.

Happy viewing,
Betty

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Column #29: Aug 2008

Posted on Aug 15
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Dear Betty,

I am 29 and like to be fucked in my ass by my wife. It’s cool that my wife loves it too and it makes her wetter than ever when she gives it to me hard. Lately, I find myself watching tranny porn and it makes me very horny. Am I normal? Am I gay? Thanx, Betty!

P.S What would be the best way to tell my wife that I want to suck a cock of a transsexual?

- TS

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Dear TS:

Wow. That’s a lot of information and some very heavy questions. I will give you my opinion on all of this. But, please remember that I’m not a licensed therapist or doctor.

That being said…Many couples enjoy strap-on sex with the woman chasing the man around, catching him and having her way with him. Many men (straight, bisexual and in between) consider this a fetish and a normal part of their sex life. If you and your wife enjoy this together that is great. I can recommend a few amazing strap-ons we carry, including the Heart Strap-On Harness By Sportsheets and the Vibro UR 3 Vac-U-Lock Harness that actually vibrates for a little extra pleasure for you both. A lot of our customers have written us and told us how much they really love both of these strap-ons.

As for the tranny porn…a lot of straight men watch tranny movies. That’s why we carry it on our site. Watching tranny movies doesn’t make you gay or even bisexual. You could be gay or bi, but tranny porn is another fetish (like the strap-on). The fact that you want to act on your fantasies is another issue. Ask yourself if you really want to blow a tranny. Some things are better left as fantasies and not to be acted upon. Betty has had a few fantasies of her own that she wished she hadn’t acted on. Really. If you are even thinking about doing this, you definitely should tell your wife. Really talk to her about it and see how she feels. Maybe you two should watch a tranny movie or two together. If she is very much against it, you’ll have to decide which is more important, having your fantasy fulfilled or your marriage. And if this is something you must do, play it safe. Make sure the trannColumn #29: Aug 2008 y is STD free and you use condoms if you can.

If you and your wife would like to check out some tranny flicks together, I would suggest checking out Combat Zone’s Bare Back Mount Him, Meltdown’s My Girlfriend Is My Boyfriend, Platinum X’s Su- She Male and MagnusFemales on Shemales.

I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck with this venture!

Love, Betty

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Dear Betty,

My wife fantasizes about being with two men and sometimes being dominated by them. Any good movies that feature this that you can recommend?

Thanks, S

Column #29: Aug 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
Dear S:

Your wife fantasies about being with 2 men and being dominated by them. Nice. Betty has lived out this fantasy. Is this something you guys only want to watch in movies? Or is it a fantasy you are thinking about fulfilling? If it is, there are a few things you will want to consider:

  • Make sure relationship is rock-solid and can handle possible jealousy (on your end) or that this could lead to more (maybe she will want to make the 2nd guy a permanent fixture in the relationship).
  • Set boundaries about what is and isn’t OK for both of you. Maybe you don’t want the other guy fucking her. Or, she might want safe words to use when being dominated. Discuss what is and isn’t going to go down.
  • Decide that it will be a safe sex adventure. Have condoms on hand&don’t expect the other guy to be a Boy Scout (AKA prepared).
  • You might want to take the action elsewhere, like a hotel or the other guy’s house. Sometimes, it’s better to separate these things from your regular daily life. Then, the fantasy and the act of it will be just that.

Column #29: Aug 2008 If it’s just flicks you’re after, there are definitely a few that I can recommend. Check out Digital Sin’s Double Teamed #2. Lauren Phoenix and Missy Monroe take 2 (not 1) for the team. Hustler’s Taboo: Maximum Perversions features bondage and DPs and has Katsuni, Penny Flame and Tory Lane burning up the screen. Voyeur Media’s Fetish Fucks also features some bondage and other fetishes along with 2 and 3-ways&this movie is a personal favorite of Betty’s, BTW. And if you like your bondage/domination a little lighter but heavy on the sex, you’ll enjoy Digital Sin’s Bound to Please&it features Ashlynn Brooke.Whatever you choose to do, good luck with everything!

Happy viewing!

Love,
Betty

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Dear Betty,

I want to know what you think sexy attire for a powerful night of sex would be.

Miss Gonzales

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Dear Miss Gonzales:

I always say go for what you feel best in. What makes you feel sexy? Do you like to play the naughty girl role and get spanked? Are you dominant and want to sport some latex? Maybe a bra, panties and garters are what makes you sizzle. This is definitely something you need to decide for yourself. I can make a few suggestions&if you are unsure which look suits your style, you might want to try a few or all of these suggestions:

I hope this helps and you always feel sexy, no mater what you wear.Love, Betty

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Dear Betty,

My wife has told me she wants to see me with another woman, so she can watch me get my cock sucked and fuck another woman. Then, she will join in when she is ready. I’m not sure I’m up to the task, but I’m willing to try. How do we find another woman for this fantasy of hers? Any help would be appreciated.

Thank you, B.D.

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Dear B.D.:

Wow, your wife is quite a woman. Most guys would jump at the chance to have his way with another chick while his wife watches (and potentially joins in). You need to decide if you’re ready to do this. And if you are, of course there are some things you need to figure out:

What type of girl would you both like? How old is she? Is she petite, average or a BBW? What is the color of her hair? What are the rules? What can and cannot take place? Who will make the move to pick the other girl up? It’s usually better if the girl does it&then, the guy looks less like a perv.

As for the actual pick-up spot, I would suggest Adult Friend Finder. You can see what the people look like and get an idea what they are like (personality-wise) along with what turns them on sexually. It’s anonymous, but you know what you’re getting…to a certain extent. Arrange to meet the girl at a public place like a bar and see if the chemistry/vibe is there all around. And, a few drinks will help loosen everybody up a little. If she’s not the one, keep trying. It may take a few times of trying this. But you will know and feel the comfort level is there. If you try going out to clubs and/or bars, you might find a girl that only wants to be with you (or just your girl). You might try to pick up on someone who isn’t into this kind of stuff and that can be embarrassing for everyone involved. That’s why I would say try Adult Friend Finder. Sure there are other sites, but I’ve had the best luck with this one.

Make sure to have plenty of condoms on hand. And go have fun!

Love, Betty

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Column #28: July 2008

Posted on Jul 15
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Dear Betty,

I see a lot on the Internet about certain things guys can eat or drink to make their cum taste better. Is there any truth to this? Also, is there a similar rule for the ladies?

- Peace out, Princess Leia

Column #28: July 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
Dear Princess:

This has got to be one of the most asked questions. Sure, we girls want to please our guys by swallowing. And this can be hard. Guys will say their cum tastes like chocolate (or anything else that tastes yummy) to get us to swallow. If you’re really curious how you taste (girls and guys), take a sample&this may seem a little gross, but you will know what it’s like for others and can work from there.

Here a few tips that are supposed can make cum taste better&this works both ways (for guys or girls) and not all these things work for everyone:

  • Have your guy eat pineapple, drink fruit juice or sugary sodas a few hours before sex&the sweetness will transfer throughout the body. I eat a lot of sugar and have gotten a lot of props on how I taste. Your diet in general has a lot to do with the fluids you secrete. So make sure to avoid onions&it can have a very bad effect on taste. Other people suggest parsley, celery and wheatgrass&I have no scientific and/or personal backing for those.
  • Sucking on Altoids before (or while) giving him oral
  • Deep throat him when he does cum&that way the cum will shoot to the back of your throat and you will taste it less. We also carry a product called Deep Throat Desensitizer in 4 flavors that will numb your throat and stop your gag reflex.
  • Make sure he cums a lot so his loads are smaller&the less to swallow, the less you will focus on the taste.
  • A lot of swallowing is psychological&pretend like you’re doing a shot and just knock it back.

Now besides food and diet, there is hygiene. Make sure you are clean down there, and well kempt. You can use wipes before having sex (if you’ve already showered). We have many wipes you can use before (and after) sex including the Cum-Kleen Wipe in Vanilla. Look under Lubes, Lotions & Potions and the subcategory Grooming. Additionally, you can buy a grooming kit to make sure you don’t have a jungle down there. Try to keep your hair trimmed and or bare&no one wants a mouth full of hair. I really like the Dare to Bare Trim Set and the His & Her Personal Trimmer.And lastly, flavored lubes can really open up your world&they are great for while you’re giving oral and when he cums (and vice versa). We carry all kinds of brands and flavors including Good Head in cherry and mint, Motion Lotion in Passionfruit and watermelon-flavored Sweetened Blow.

Hope this helps!

Love, Betty

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Dear Betty,

We are new to the site and would love to find really dirty, raunchy, aggressive language without the super kinky stuff like ass licking, ass to mouth, etc. Although some kinky acts like facials, cum swapping and domination are OK. We engage in all of the same and would love to see it on video to spur us on.

Thanks, BH

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Dear BH:

You go! Watching DVDs before and during sex is definitely a major turn-on. And with some dirty talk added to that, you can’t go wrong.

Column #28: July 2008 Check out Platinum X’s Spread’em Wide #3&there are lots of dirty nothings whispered by hot chicks Jasmine Bryne, Jordan Styles, Lauren Phoenix and Keri Sable along with anal and double-teaming. And if Latinas that talk dirty in Spanish (and English) is your thing, check out Platinum X’s Slutinas with Christina Agave and Luscious Lopez giving sizzling performances and swallowing.

In Bad Seed’s 10 Monster Mug Shots, Annette Schwarz talks dirty in German. Column #28: July 2008 Yes, you read right. This flick is solely blowjobs, so raunchy chat is a requirement. Chelsie Rae and Aaralyn Barra also give excellent performances with their mouths in more ways than one. Mercenary Pictures’ Man Hammer #3 is an interracial DVD peppered with lots of nasty talk. Nikki Hunter, Sandra Romain and Trina Michaels give the dialogue and you also get to see multiple guys pound these girls, cowgirl DPs and facials&check out the cumshot gallery, too.

Column #28: July 2008 And lastly, check out the queen of talking dirty, Jenna Haze, in Zero Tolerance’s Interactive Sex with Jenna Haze&you determine what she does and how much you want to hear her talk. Additionally, she can have sex with Alektra Blue (oral and strap-ons), light bondage and an assortment of outfits that she will gladly take off.

Happy viewing!

Love,
Betty

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Dear Betty,

I’m looking for movies featuring women with hairy beavers, trimmed ones not the forest type featured in hairy beaver movies. Also, I’m looking for movies that feature women with good tan lines, especially the ones where the girl’s ass is white, not the thong type. If they had both that and a nice trimmed bush it would be a bonus, but I don’t expect miracles.

Thanks! Drew

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Dear Drew:

Some guys still like the old school style of hair on a girl’s pussy. Many women are shaving or waxing down there, so we can more like the porn chicks. It does seem that movies feature girls with 1 of the 2 extremes&no hair or extremely bushy. It’s hard to find flicks that solely feature girls with trimmed snatches. And adding good tan lines to that equation is pretty difficult. But after much research, I was able to find movies that feature girls with predominantly shaved beavers.

Column #28: July 2008 Despite the title, Bone Digital’s Boz in the Bush has girls with some hair on their kitties. They are all really trimmed and the flick features big boobed hottie, Gianna, and raven haired babe, Maria Bellucci. 3rd Degree’s Hair Force is another movie featuring trimmed bush and even stars a porn chick named Helena Bush.

Column #28: July 2008 I’m not quite sure if you’re into Asian girls&they don’t usually have tan lines at all. But I have noticed that some of our titles featuring Asian girls that are living in Asia, usually have trimmed bushes. Third World Media is a studio that carries a lot of these types of movies including Sexual Arts Academy, Naughty Little Asians #14 and Pretty Little Asians. We also carry more of these movies on VOD (Video on Demand) from a studio called Japan X.

Column #28: July 2008 And lastly, check out some old school porn. These girls were either bushy or trimmed. VCX’s Debbie Does Dallas is a prime example of this. Not only is it one of Bambi Woods‘ only movies, but it features some really pretty natural non-porny type chicks. Also, check out The Devil in Miss Jones. And in VCA’s Hardcore Hairdresser there is an actual scene where Keri Windsor gets her snatch trimmed by a barber&and, it is very erotic to say the least. Click on the Classic genre tab for more of this type of movie.

Happy viewing!

Love, Betty

Column #28: July 2008 advisor_q_topcorner
Dear Betty,

Hi from Tel Aviv Israel! It’s a great summer time here, want to come and visit me?

Thanks! SM Lights

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Dear SM Lights:

I would love to come to Israel, but I am too busy answering all the email, watching porn (that new VOD is awesome!) and a lot of other naughty stuff. Thanks for the invite, though.

Please tell your friends to send me their burning sex questions. Not question is too big for me to tackle. I’m just here to help.

Thanks,

Love, Betty

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Column #27: June 2008

Posted on Jun 15
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Dear Betty,

I am a 46 year old woman who hasn’t been with a man in a long time! (Over a year) I find myself thinking about sex a lot lately and watching porn and reading erotica. I’m thinking about signing up for one of those “get fucked tonight” websites. However, I’m terrified of AIDS and possible serial killers. The dildo isn’t doing it for me anymore. I need the feel of a man’s hands and body on my skin. I wouldn’t mind going to a dating website, but I don’t want the men to think I’m a pervert!

- Thanks for listening, LT

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Dear LT:

The dating scene can really be a downer. Trust me, I know. But, getting laid is as important as breathing.

I do highly recommend Adult FriendFinder.com, Sex Search.com and Flirt.com. You can browse through guys’ profiles and see what they have to say and more importantly what they look like. Talk to them on the phone first or ask them to have a drink with you&you’re a woman and you can rely on your intuition as to whether someone is a serial killer (or worse). I’ve personally used it (I’m tired of bars and casual encounters on that guy Craig’s site) and I totally recommend it. Also they have webcams, if you want to be naughty with the person over the computer before attempting it in real life. Just a thought…

As for regular dating/romance websites, that can be tricky. I have tried them all and had varying results. No one will think you’re a pervert, because everyone uses the online approach to meet people. I will warn you a lot of guys are on there just for sex. And, I prefer AdultFriendFinder for that. You should take the chance and try. Make sure you put up recent pictures, write an engaging profile and be honest (honesty is the key). If you want a serious relationship, try to hold off on the sex for at least 3 dates&I know this will be hard since you haven’t had any for awhile, but trust me it will work. And when you do have sex, use condoms&it will cut the chances down significantly of you getting an STD like AIDS.

Until the man thing pans out with a one-night stand, fuck buddy and/or a permanent relationship, I would suggest that you buy some new toys. Of course, you’re bored if you only have a dildo. If you want a new dildo that will really do it for you, I would suggest the Bandito Candy Violet Dildo &its swirls and curved arch for the g-spot will leave you screaming for more. And if you’re a fan of Sex in the City, I’m sure you’re familiar with the Hitatchi Magic Wand. They have come down in price, last forever and no girl should be without one. My current favorite vibe is Doc Johnson’s Lucid Dream it is the most amazing vibe ever! It always hits the spot, if you know what I mean. And if you really want a man toy, how about a male lovedoll?! Yes, they do make them. Check out The Black Male Vibrating Doll that has an anatomic dick that vibrates or the Construction Man Doll either way you’re in for quite an adventure.

I hope this helps and you get lucky soon!

Love, Betty

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Dear Betty,

I have very stereotypical Irish looks; long bright red hair, very fair skin with freckles and bright blue eyes. My new boyfriend and I would like to view a few adult films with women with similar features. There’s only one catch: I prefer feature length films. Also, are there any titles you can think of that would feature people with piercings that don’t delve too far into fetish?

Thanks, Red

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Dear Red:

Sounds like someone likes to see themselves in porn. Undertandable.

Column #27: June 2008 Veteran porn chick, Kylie Ireland is a redhead but with green eyes and she has been in tons of movies that are features like SexZ Pictures‘ huge blockbuster Corruption, along with Vivid’s Stalker and Layout. Dani Woodward is another redhead, but she has blue eyes&catch her in Vivid’s X Marks The Spot and Club Jenna’s Krystal Therapy.

Column #27: June 2008 Flick Shagwell has a similar look and an English accent&you can watch her moves in SexZ PicturesUpload. And you can put Never Ending Redheads, a 6-disc set, in your queue&it features all these lovely ladies and some other luscious redheads (and some girls who were briefly redheads).

Column #27: June 2008 As for alternative movies, you should check out movies directed and produced by Eon McKai&he does Suicide Girl like porn. Yes, the girls have piercings, tats and wild hair color. Check out Vivid Alt’s Bad Luck Betties, Debbie Does Dallas…Again, Neu Wave Hookers and Girls Lie. These aren’t features, but more like vignettes (little stories) and are quite interesting without any fetish craziness.

Column #27: June 2008 Also, you might want to check out movies from director/performer, Joanna Angel. Same type of girls, but her movies have a sense of humor to them. Put Adam & Eve’s Not Another Porn Movie, VCA’s Porny Monster and Burning Angel’s Cum on My Tattoo #2.

Happy viewing!

Love,
Betty

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Dear Betty,

Before I got married to my wife, I was able to cum when I had sex. Now that we are married I’m not able to. I can jack off and cum but not while having sex with my wife. We watch porn together and still nothing happens. What do you think is the issue?

Thanks, Philly Phil

Column #27: June 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
Dear Philly Phil:

Wow. I think the first thing you need to do is try and figure out what has changed since you got married. Do you have a fear of commitment? Marriage is a huge commitment.

Maybe your wife physically changed and you’re not attracted to her. Has she gained or lost weight or completely let herself go? Does she nag you? Has she lost interest? These are just a few answers to what the real issue could be. But, you really need to think about this and do some serious soul searching. Really.

There is one other possibility. Do you take any kind of anti-depressants? They can interfere with your ability to cum. Betty once had a boyfriend who could go all night and never came due to happy pills. If you aren’t on pills and this issue continues, you might want to have a chat with your doctor. Or, maybe go to couples counseling. Talking about these types of issues can definitely shed light on things.

In the meantime, I can make a few suggestions that will perhaps change this scenario. Watching porn is a great idea, but add some toys to that equation. Are you aware there are now toys for men? You and your wife can share the experience together (or you can fly solo other times). I would say get yourself a male p-spot (p for prostate) stimulator. This will definitely put you in the mood and you might just cum before you start fucking her. This is a powerful toy! I also think you should invest in a vibrating cock ring &cock rings help you stay erect and give you larger than normal orgasms. And, the vibration added to that will be a plus for both you and your wife.

And, I think your wife should get some lingerie. Eye candy always drives the men crazy. No need to head to Victoria’s Secret&log on to the site and pick some things out for her. Crotchless black lace panties are a great place to start. A see-through babydoll and g-string will get you thinking nasty thoughts (or more). And a corselette that will allow her boobs to be exposed will definitely make you hot. Look under the lingerie tab for more tantalization ensembles.

I hope this helps,

Love, Betty

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Column #26: May 2008

Posted on May 15
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Dear Betty,

My wife is hesitant about being with a woman. She says she thinks some women are hot. She’s curious, but I think she thinks there is something wrong with fooling around with another woman. Is there a movie or toy or even just some advice to help her?

- Farm Couple

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Dear Farm Couple:

When I read your letter, the first thing that came to mind is does your wife really want to be with another woman. I know when women make sexual comments about other women, their men get amped up envisioning 3-ways. Some women just like to look at other chicks and that’s all there is to it. So make sure that’s what she really wants before pushing the issue. Also, you will want to find out if this is an adventure you two will share or if it’s a solo mission. When I was with my ex, we shared girls and it was hot. And of course, there’s nothing wrong about messing around with another woman as long as you are OK with it and she’s honest about her feelings.

I would say that you need to ease her into the idea of being with another woman&start off small. I would say get her imagination going. When you’re going down on her (or you can try this with a toy), tell her to pretend a chick is down there. If she gets all hot and bothered and has a bigger orgasm than usual, you’ll know you’re on the right track. Another thing you could do is point out other chicks while you are out and ask her what she thinks of them. This will give you an idea of what her type is and you might even find a girl to take home for her.

The next logical step would be to watch a movie with either two girls and a guy or an all-girl flick. This definitely gets me in the mood. Column #26: May 2008 Of course, I can suggest a few. Reality King’s We Live Together #4 is a movie about college girls going out and picking up chicks and scoring with their female roommates. This girl-on-girl flick is reality based and not full of professional porn chicks&she might even learn some skills on how to pick up chicks from this one. Bad Seed’s 10 Dirty Talking Masturbators #2 is a solo girl movie that features girls pleasuring themselves and using toys. No doubt this one will get her (and probably you) off.

Column #26: May 2008 And if girls with toys are her thing, you’ll also want to check out Intense IndustriesGirls Dil-Doing Girls, an all-girl slumber party featuring toys. Look under the All Girls genre tab for more movies. And, you know Betty is big on sex ed. I would say rent both of these movies&Adam & Eve’s Nina Hartley’s Guide To Sex For The Bi Curious Woman and Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes: Two Girls & A Guy.

As for toys, I would purchase those for her when she has already been with a girl a few times. Or you could purchase them right away. If she’s going to be flying solo (or you’ll be watching), I would recommend a double dildo and/or maybe a strap on. Or you can just go really basic with a vibrator (or two). Just make sure when the girls share toys that they clean the toy before the other person uses it&this will cut down on infections and the potential spread of STDs.

Hope this helps! Be safe and have fun.

Love, Betty

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Dear Betty,

Can you recommend any younger, attractive male porn stars or movies? My husband and I are in our 20’s and like to watch porn but I would like to see some guys closer to our age range.

Thanks, BD

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Dear BD:

Column #26: May 2008 Great question! I get this one a lot. Fortunately, there are a lot of good looking younger male performers. Gone are the days of the hairy, fat guys. More women than ever are watching porn. And, we want to see some hot guys.

If bald and tattooed is your thing, you’ll dig Derrick Pierce. Catch him in Vivid’s Debbie Does Dallas…Again, Adam & Eve’s Tease and Club Jenna’s Casting Couch #3, just to name a few.

Column #26: May 2008 My personal fave is Jerry, a buff Czechoslovakian babe. Did I mention the accent? He’s been in a ton of movies including Digital Playground’s Filth Cums First, Voyeur Media’s SWAT: Sex With A Teenager #2, Hustler’s Young Latin Ass #5 and Vivid’s The Sunny Experiment.

Jack Venice is tanned, buff and looks like he spends a lot of time at the beach. Column #26: May 2008 He’s recently appeared in Venom’s Great Big Tits #5, Shane’s World’s Trust Justice #2, Evil Angel’s E Is For Eva, Hush Hush Entertainment’s Bachelor Party Fuckfest #6 and Voodoo House’s Good Morning Woody.

Column #26: May 2008 Friend of Joanna Angel and boy next door, James Deen is a favorite among the ladies. He’s young, hung and dashing. You can catch him in Combat Zone’s Grand Slam #2, Red Light District’s What A Booty #4, Voodoo House’s Freaky First Timers #7, Greedy’s Boy Meets MILF and Zero Tolerance’s 2 Young To Fall In Love.

Column #26: May 2008 Porn stud Alec Knight definitely tops many of the ladies lists. With his piercing green eyes, this guy can really turn on the charm. Recently, he’s starred in Vivid’s Bad Luck Betties, Teravision’s Daddy I’m A Porn Star Now! and Adam & Eve’s Taking Memphis.

Column #26: May 2008 Frenchman Manuel Ferrara started in porn by winning a contest. Now, he’s a performer and director. Catch this multiple award-winner in such films as Red Light District’s Tease Me Then Please Me #7, Evil Angel’s Bangin’ Black Boxes (he stars and directs this one), Vivid’s 200 Proof and Digital Sin’s Bound To Please #2.

Column #26: May 2008 And lastly if blonde hair and blue eyes drive you wild, you’ll love Erik Everhard. This Canadian actor/performer has performed in over 500 movies&many of these can be found on WantedList including Diabolic’s Watch Your Back, Club Jenna’s Sophia Royale, Jules Jordan’s Innocent Until Proven Filthy #3 (he performs and directs in it), Digital Playground’s Filth Cums First #2, Penthouse’s The Bottom Drawer and Shane’s WorldsCasey Parker Is… Boy Crazy.

You can also do a search under any of these performers’ names to find more of their movies.

Happy viewing!

Love,
Betty

Column #26: May 2008 advisor_q_topcorner
Dear Betty,

I’m looking for something similar to an older movie I viewed. It may have been early to mid 90’s movie&there were about 20-40 women playing volley ball, barbequing and lining up to ride the dicks of two men waiting in lawn chairs.

I am also looking for movies with multiple black women fucking one or two men at a time.

Thanks, DP

Column #26: May 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
Dear DP:

Looks like you’re a fan of the reverse gang bang, meaning the chicks outnumber the dudes. Nice. I can suggest some movies so movies to fit that bill. But unfortunately after much research, I was unable to find the movie you were asking about.

Column #26: May 2008 Italian stud, Rocco Siffredi, seems to have corned the reverse gang bang market. He has a series of movies through Evil Angel: Rocco’s Reverse Gang Bang, Rocco’s Reverse Gang Bang #2 and Rocco’s Reverse Gang Bang #3. In each movie, he takes on 20 chicks or more. Now that’s stamina. Another flick to watch would be another Evil Angel movie, Euro Angels Hardball #19: Reverse Gang Bang Edition. Watch Christoph Clark and his buddies take on a bevy of babes (at once) including Czech hotties, Jane Darling and Stacey Silver. You might also want to check out Devils FilmsReverse Interracial Gang Bang&yes one lucky black man can take on 10 whores.

Column #26: May 2008 And now for movies with multiple Black women fucking 1 or 2 white guys…Shane’s World’s Hawaiian Vacation is the story of 3 black chicks and 2 dudes packing their bags for a little rest and relaxation along with some group sex. Black Ice has a line of All That Ass: The Orgy. Check out the series with volumes 1 through 5. And lastly, Black Ice also has another flick called 2 Ho’s & A Bro&watch Brian Plumper and his buddies take one two chicks at once including Havana Ginger, Ice LaFox and Jada Fire.

Happy viewing!

Love, Betty

Column #26: May 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
A Special Note From Betty:

Thank you for all your questions, offers for 3-ways and your patience (I get a lot of questions, so it takes time to get around to them all).

And remember, no problem is too big or small. I’m here to help. So, don’t be shy&write me.

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Column #25: April 2008

Posted on Apr 15
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Dear Betty,

First of all I read your column all the time and love it. But now, I have a question for you of my own. Recently, I exposed my girlfriend to the wonderful world of anal. We are starting off slow, with only shallow to deep fingering while I penetrate her. After that first time of multiple, hard orgasms she was literally begging me to give her a break. I want to take it further, not to penis-anus intercourse yet, but make her more comfortable with the thought. Could you recommend some movies where the male penetrates the vagina but there is also an anal toy involved?

- Tony

Column #25: April 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
Dear Tony :

I am very impressed that you are not just shoving your dick (all the way in her ass) and going for it, like some guys do. You are starting off nice and slow, letting her ease into the experience.

I think you’re going about it in the right way, but I would suggest that you maybe invest in a butt plug kit. They have kits that go from starter (very small) to large sized. That way you will have all the sizes on-hand as you work your way up. This is how the porn stars are able to take such big cocks&they start out small and increase the size of the butt plug. Then, they are ready for their on-screen anal scenes. I would suggest that you pick up My First Anal Kit - this kit has a small butt plug and can vibrate. Your girl will lose her mind. Then, I would suggest you get the Dr. Joel Kaplan Anal Dilator Kit &it comes with 3 different sized plugs so you can train her ass to be ready for you to enter her. And don’t forget whether using your finger or a butt plug, use lots of lube. I like Astroglide &always a classic!

Column #25: April 2008 As for the watching movies with anal toys involved…that was another good idea on your part. We have quite a few of those. In Jules Jordans’ Ass Worship #4, Ayana Angel, Friday, Katja Kassin and Austin O’Reilly are pleasured with anal beads, dildos and butt plugs while being fucked and/or just for sport. It’s a Jules Jordan movie&what more can I say?! In Third Degree’s Crack Addict #3, you get a lot of anal play and a scene where Melissa Lauren takes an enormous black butt plug while doing 2 guys and it’s pretty amazing.

Column #25: April 2008 In Gina Lynn’s Fantasstic Whores #3, sex toys are inserted quite freely (and frequently) into the asses of Naomi and Flower Tucci. And lastly in Voyeur Media’s In Thru The Back Door #3, Ricki White, Maya Gates, Leah Jaye are all assaulted with anal beads, giant dildos, and double dongs while being fucked.

Hope this helps!

Love, Betty

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Dear Betty,

My wife and I are looking for hot blonde girl on girl or straight sex with no gross stuff like feeding the girls cum off of a spoon and no spitting.

Thanks, TS

Column #25: April 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
Dear TS:

So, you and your wife are a fan of blondes and you aren’t fans of girls eating cum (either off a spoon or a guy) and spitting. Betty is not a fan of the spitting either. What ever happened to a girl’s best friend, lube. But anyways, we do have some movies that might interest you. I would suggest feature films&they usually have 1 or more hot blondes and none of the too out there stuff.

Digital Playground’s Pirates Column #25: April 2008 features Jesse Jane, Devon, Carmen Luvana and Janine. Yes, four hot blondes and some pirates plundering on the high seas. And if you like high quality, we have this flick on HD and Blu-Ray. Adam and Eve’s Eden is a tropical romp with amazing scenery and blonde babes like Carmen Luvana, Courtney Cummz and Bree Olsen&you will definitely not want to leave this island.

Column #25: April 2008 And if you’re looking for the perfect blonde maid, check out Tawny Roberts and Nicole Sheridan in Vivid’s House Keeper. And you won’t find more hot blondes than in Digital Playground’s Babysitters (also available in HD and Blu-Ray) including Jesse Jane, Gina Lynn, Teagan Presley, Sammie Rhodes, Nikki Benz and Angie Savage&this movie is not only hot, but has an interesting storyline.

Column #25: April 2008 For girl on girl flicks, I would recommend Diabolic’s All About Me featuring stunning foxes like Bree Olsen, Heather Gables, Eve Lawrence, Savanah Gold, Nikki Kane and Fayth Deluca all fucking themselves and each other. Next, check out Private Lesbian #3: Lolitas In Paradise starring Nikki Sun, Jennifer Love, Carla Cox and Cindy Dollar&smoking hot blondes on a tropical island. Enough said. And lastly check out Digital Sin’s Jenna Goes Solo featuring Jenna Jameson, Alexis Malone, Jana Cova and Bree Olsen all pleasuring themselves&this one will definitely get you both off.

Happy Viewing!

Love,
Betty

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Dear Betty,

I am married and my wife’s younger sister and I are thinking about getting together for one night of hot passionate sex. The love for my wife is not there anymore. Tell me what you think I should do?

Thanks, Xavier

Column #25: April 2008 advisor_q_btmcorner
Dear Xavier:

Why is the love not there for your wife anymore? Is she frigid? Or are you just not doing it for her anymore? You didn’t give me too much information here. My advice to you is to try to rekindle the flame. At one point your wife must have been really into sex, otherwise you two would have never married. What you need to do is not only bring back the romance, but the fire. Things could be so hot that you might think you are with another woman and not your wife. What you need is some Betty strategy:

  • Buy her some lingerie. Women dig that and it always makes us feel even sexier. I would suggest the Bra and Panty set & it looks great on many women, petite or plus-sized. You could even pair them up with Black Latex Stockings . A Fishnet Top With G-String is also sizzling hot for the bedroom.
  • Column #25: April 2008 Have you tried watching porn with her? Step away from the computer and watch it together. If she is willing, you’ll both get extremely turned on. Well and you know the rest. Some chick- friendly porn is always best. I would suggest Vivid’s Debbie Does Dallas..Again&it’s got cheerleaders and Hillary Scott. Or maybe one with an interesting plot like Vivid’s 59 Seconds&then she might not even realize she’s watching a porn. Well, at some point she will but there will be something in there you both will enjoy. A lot of couples really enjoy Wicked movies&they feature some of the hottest girls in porn, are shot well and have some pretty good storylines&check out Love Always, Curse Eternal, Reform School Girls and Compulsion.
  • How about a little education and titillation? Pick up a copy of the Karma Sutra, the oldest porn book ever (yes, it’s thousands of years old). Leave it on the bed or under her pillow. She’s bound to be curious and want to try out some of the positions in the book. It’s a beautiful book (bound in silk) and if it weren’t so kinky, you could leave it out as a coffee table book.
  • Play a sex game together. Check out the Games category under Couples Kits in our toy section. The Bed of Roses Deluxe Edition is a nice way to bring you closer together&it’s not a game, but it’s definitely playtime. I also recommend the Jumbo Fantasy and Strip Dice & throw the dice and win, win here.
  • Toys. Yes, I love it when a man buys me a toy and wants to use it with me. That tells me that he has a high confidence level, is not intimidated by it and knows it will never replace him. Really. I would say definitely pick her up Doc Johnson’s Lucid Dream Vibe &this is my FAVORITE toy, hands down. Or she might like the Couples Pleasure Vibrator that is great for solo or together action. You can put it more than one hole/orifice at a time and it’s quite decadent. Maybe high tech is what she needs. Check out the Hitatchi Magic Wand &it’s a classic that is the Cadillac of vibes.

Try one or all of these suggestions. But more importantly, make her feel special and loved. You might see a big change in your relationship. Cheating never helps things. And if you sleep with her sister, it will ruin their relationship and be the ultimate nightmare (if she finds out). And if all else fails, go to counseling together.Good luck!

Love, Betty

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