My wife and I have been involved in the swingers’ lifestyle for about a year. I have a performance problem that is killing me. I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection when I am with my wife. But when I get with another woman, I can’t keep an erection at all when it comes time for penetration. While I receive oral sex from other women, I’m as hard as usual. When it comes time to put on a condom, my erection withers away. If I try to have intercourse without a condom, the best I can do is semi erect. It’s enough to get the deed done, barely. My wife keeps telling me it’s in my head and I need to just relax, but it’s very frustrating and a major ego crusher for me. Are there some relaxation techniques you could recommend or something else possibly to look into?

Thanks,
Frustrated in the Mountains

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Dear Frustrated:

You’re another man living out the fantasies of other men. That’s great that you and your wife have decided to be swingers and take your relationship to a whole new level. It takes a very solid relationship to be able to carry that off. Kudos to you.

As for your performance issues, I think there are a few ways we can tackle this. First off, I would say pick one other woman and have her join you and/or your wife more than a few times. It’s hard to have chemistry with someone you hardly know and different people all the time. Really get to know the other person&talk, have drinks or whatever you feel comfortable doing. I would try that first and see what happens.

If that doesn’t work, I would really sit down and think about what could be the real issue here? Ask yourself if you’re really comfortable having sex with other women. Maybe, you’d get more turned on just watching your wife with other men and/or being part of that action. Of course, it could all be mental. You might want to imagine the other woman is your wife. Men daydream all the time about having sex with porn stars, while fucking their wives or girlfriends.

One last suggestion. You might want to loosen up the mood with a little porn. It always gets me in the mood. Evil Angel’s Euro Angels Hardball #1 has sex scenes with erotic stories in them. Maybe, you want to watch what you’ll be doing. Get an amateur movie that has scenes with 2 or 3 people having sex. Combat Zone’s The Girl Next Door would be a good one.

I hope this helps you get over whatever is literally keeping you down. Just relax, take a deep breath, have fun, and your whole experience will change. Fingers crossed.

Hawt.  Some parents are up in arms about this.  What’s the big deal, like her porportions are right in the first place.  It’s not like it says “Welcome to Heaven” like my stripper friend has.  They could have called it Porno Barbie, or Easy Barbie, although I think Jenna Jameson’s porportions are pretty close.

If you’re into tattoos, check out these titles.

xoxo

Jen

Dear Betty,

My wife can play with my dick for a long time, including handjobs and oral. But the minute I penetrate her, I cum, literally, in 2 minutes. I don’t understand. My dick can be stimulated for an hour, but once it’s inside the love canal it unleashes the goods. The party’s over. What’s the deal? Is there anything I can do to prevent this and make it last longer while being inside her? Please help!!!

Much thanks,
Disappointed

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Dear Disappointed:

I had to laugh when I read your letter. Betty once had a boyfriend who was a two-minute man. He had a lot of excuses, like it’s because I love you and/or it’s because we don’t use condoms. We used condoms and it didn’t change anything. Finally, after 6 months, I couldn’t take it anymore. He still wants to get together and have sex. But, I won’t play that game anymore.

You seem really diligent and want to solve this problem. It’s important you can go longer, so your woman can orgasm and enjoy you inside her. I would try these things:

· Try condoms&condoms take away sensitivity, which could be causing your premature ejaculations. We have a huge variety in our toy section. You might want to try the Lifestyles Non-Lubricated ones. The less lubrication, the more of a chance you’ll go longer.
· Get a cock ring. A cock ring can go around your dick or your dick and balls. I would try just the dick first. This has helped many men rock the boat all night long. Literally. There are metal and adjustable ones. I would start with the rubber, adjustable ones &they’re more comfortable. This set comes with 3. Go with the ones that’s the tightest you can stand&it will hopefully do the trick.
· Another trick would be to keep pulling out before you cum. This could help, but if you do pull in and out repeatedly too often, it might piss your wife off. It sucks when you’re almost orgasming and you lose it all the sudden&that’s how she might feel if you try this technique.
· You could use a trick male porn stars use. They let there minds go somewhere else, not thinking about the task at hand. That’s how they can be marathon men, when it comes to the money shot.
· Lastly, you might want to see your doctor. He could prescribe something and/or see if the problem is physical.

I hope this helps and you become the stallion in bed you want to be.

Cheers,
Betty

Dear Betty,

My wife loves watching porn with me. Her favorites involve anything where the girl has to be talked into doing anything (especially straight sex and facials). Are there any movies out there that focus on this theme? We tried the whole Bang Bus thing, but it is just too childish for us. The dialogue was ridiculous. Please help us out.

Thanks,
BH

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Dear BH:

Amateur and reality porn are quite a turn on. You get to see fresh new faces and the whole talking a chick into sex is good entertainment.

If you’re not a fan of Bang Bus, you might like Pink Visual’s Backseat Bangers and the Bang Boat series. We have quite a few of them and they’re pretty hot. If you like MILFs, they also have a series called Housewife Bangers. The tables are turned&the chicks are getting their husbands to agree to them having sex with other men, even if that means them watching. I also like the Her First Anal Sex series&nothing is harder than getting a chick to do that. The good thing about Pink Visual movies is their girls don’t look tore up from the floor up&you’ll actually see some cute girls who you really will believe are having sex on camera for the first time and/or being coerced into doing it.

You might want to check out Amateur District’s titles, like Amateur P.O.V.. You’ll see a lot of porn stars before they made they big time, as fresh-faced young girls. If you’d like to see more amateur titles, click on the Amateur genre tab.

Hope this helps!

Love,
Betty

Dear Betty,

I saw a mainstream movie once that hinted at two women sharing a double-ended dong, “ass to ass” as they said in the movie. Is there a common name for this technique, and what are some good movies that show it?

Thanks,
DD

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Dear DD:

Very original question there. I did a little research and there’s no name for that specific act. It can be considered a fetish, either an anal or toy fetish. Personally, I’ve only seen girls using double dongs in their snatches or mouths. But, there are movies that feature girls using double dongs anally. It is quite a rare phenomenon, though.

In NJ Films’ Interacial Anal Teens ‘N Toys there is a scene with Mia Beck and Mika Tan were they go to town with a double dong. It goes into both their snatches and does make it’s way into Mika’s ass, while in Mia’s snatch. This movie has girls with a lot of toys and you’ll want to see the other scenes. And if you like this flick, there’s a number 2 in the installment, as well.

In NuTechs’ Double Dildo Dykes , these girls get busy anally and every which way with double dongs.

These two movies were all I could find. Now, you could also get creative and buy a double ended dong, like the Majestic CyberSkin Double Cock, and have 2 girls go at it for some live action. You could even make your own movies, just the way you like them.

Enjoy,
Betty

Do you know if there any DVD’s that focus mainly on the fetish of huge cumshots all over big tits?

Thanks,
CB Fan

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Dear CB:
Big boobs and cumshots. Nice combo. 3rd Degree’s Breast Seller #2 features big boobs and pop shots on them, along with a few facials. This compilation has some of the hottest chicks in porn, including Gina Lynn and Tory Lane.

Although he’s usually all about the ass, Jules Jordan’s Breast Worship has 7 sets of giant melons (and lots of jokes about them) and loads of cum. His Boobaholics Anonymous #2 is a big boob and cum extravaganza, as well.

Red Light District’s 110% Natural #10 has Sophie Dee and Brandy Talore taking some nice loads on their voluptuous tits. If you like it, check out the whole series.

And lastly, I would recommend, Diabolic’s Rack It Up with Carmella Bing, Nikki Benz and Brooke Haven bouncing their tits for your pleasure.

Try and contain yourself with this much entertainment&I know it will be hard.

Happy viewing,
Betty

1. Hot Young Chicks
2. Hot Young MILFS
3. Suburban Reality Shows

This is all thanks to that magical thing called Plastic Surgery from a magical place called Orange County, the capital of cosmetic operations.  This place pumps out porn stars, strippers, and women that WANT to look like porn stars and strippers by the SUV load.  It’s in their culture according to this NY Times article…but the market has apparently dropped by almost 40% since last year.

Hopefully this won’t stem the flow of new girls into porn/stripping.

xoxo

-Jen

www.myhusbandneedsajob.com is born.

LOL!

What a great testament to human enginuity.  In this market and economy, you’ve got to be creative.

In honor of this idea, WantedList has registered 2 domains for your amusement, in true porno fashion:

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www.myhusbandneedsablowjob.com

Enjoy!

xoxox

-Jen

Actually there is.  Spend some money.  C’mon get that credit card out and spend some money on Porn!  Economic Viagra!

If you stimulate our economy, we promise to stimulate you back.  If you’re feeling extra generous, buy your lady something…or maybe something you both can enjoy.  Hell it’ll be cheaper than dinner and a movie.

xoxo

-Jen

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